Marriage in my context

For the past few weeks I've been attending numerous number of wedding. From cousins, to friends to colleague. I have been thinking about this thing what we call 'marriage'. Here is marriage in my context.

Wikipedia defines marriage as Marriage is a social, religious, spiritual, or legal union of individuals. This union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is usually called a wedding and the married status created is sometimes called wedlock.. (Wikipedia, 2009)

My ideology of marriage is more to responsibility towards the other side. Some people always ask 'when' are you getting married. Yes we do get answers of vague numbers and answers such as "earliest 28", "when i get my degrees/get rich", and so on. The question that we should really ask is whether the person is ready for marriage. Ready to bare all the responsibilities that comes with it? Ready to be a good husband/wife? Be a good father/mother? Be a good grandfather/mother? If the answer is YES for most of the question, think again..
What defines a good husband/wife? being able care for the other half, being able to provide when the time comes, being for them whether in good times or in bad times. What defines a good father/mother then? Capable of nurturing the young mind so that he/she will be a good person i future. being able to be responsible for all the kids actions and the list goes on and on.

For me, getting marriage could prove quite simple. But preserving the marriage seems otherwise. Everyone can get married it seems. You dont need lots of money to get married. Just have a small reception will not cost much. All you need to get marriage is the vows and its already considered 'sah'. How bout preserving them? Do we need to find vows to preserve the marriage? How do people can be able to tolerate or withstand each other for such a long time? There bound to be limitation for everyone. At a certain point, the glass will break.

However, being an optimistic person, I always try to look on the brightside. Yes, marriage will make most thing 'halal'. Marriage will continue your generation or 'zuriat'. Marriage will also means having a partner by your side, to carry any burden with you, in sickness and in health.

Hopefully everything will turn out fine with the cousins, colleagues, and friends that their wedding i attended to.

Selamat pengantin baru.

100 Blogs that grow you Brain

100 Blogs that grow you Brain



OnlineUniversities.com has put together a list of 100 blogs that will make you smarter. The blog list is broken into 10 categories with 10 blogs in each one. I am honoured to see that Hacked Gadgets has made it in the DIY category. Is this list link bait? I don’t think so since I would agree with all of the entries I have looked at.



"Do It Yourself
Learning how to create what most people buy is a valuable lesson on using your brain and creativity. These blogs will help you do just that.
Make: Blog. Learn how to make some seriously cool stuff with this blog from the popular Make Magazine.
Instructables Community Blog. Find out how to make the world’s largest pinata or test your Instructables knowledge with a quiz on this blog.
Hacks Blog. Make a cake in a coffee mug, a Linux-controlled power switch, or play backed-up Wii games with the information here.
DIY City Blog. Independent artists with a DIY flair share their ideas that range from knitted hats to hand-made jewelry.
DIY Audio Projects. From vacuum tubes to subwoofers, this blog will help you build your own audio projects.
The Automata/Automaton Blog. If you are interested in making or collecting automata or mechanical toys, this blog will provide you with plenty of information.
DIY Woodworking, Home Improvement, and Art Projects. From building a guitar to installing a toilet, learn how to do it all here.
Gizmodo. Learn to see in 3D or read about the latest tech gadgets at this blog.
Hacked Gadgets. Learn to make your computer control an LCD display or create a beer cooler lock down on this blog.
Chic Knits. Get your knit on with this blog that offers suggestions, tips, photos, and more to help you knit stuff worth wearing."

P/S: I feel that my brain getting a bit bigger. (rite)

Rock Sports

So its been a while since i've been at my fav sports. kof kof.. wall climbing. so took out my unused 1-yr old gear and went climbing at the normal place. Camp 5 one utama. However things have really change since i last been there. Everything is different. Even the people there are different. The routes have change very much. My favorite routes that i have finished or barely finished are gone. They have replace these routes with new routes. More difficult (maybe for me).

Ouh, just something to add. I saw Jehan Miskin climbing on the sentinal wall. Didnt really care much. So as usual started with the normal warm up routines. Which I cant recall much. Then start with traversing. I only did like 3 - 5 minuts of traversing and my hands already started to pump. Damnit. Then after a little of relaxation started climbing on the auto belay routes and top rope routes. I was very dissapointed with myself as for a simple 5A route i have trouble finishing it. And as for the hands and fingers, since i havent climb so far, my hands seems to be 'softer'. as u can see from the picture it turns red-ish in colour showing in deeply pain. ouch, it took me months to get my hands 'harder' and now i have to start back from scratch. But overall i dont think i did that bad. I still have my upper strengths but my footwork needs help. Real serious help.

When im with you

Dear you,

When im with you,
I feel like a strager,
A stranger in love,
Like I dont know what is it to love

When I’m with you,
The world seems so small,
But big enough for the both of us,
Just you and me,
Living like we should.


When I’m with you,
My heart starts beating,
Like it never beat before,
Then it stopped for a while,
Like it never stopped before.

When I’m with you,
Everything right seems so wrong,
Everything wrong seems so right,
Oh I wish I can tell you all of this,
But it would be wrong,
Cause you’re the cause of all this

Ramadhan!

Again it is the time of the year again. And no, its not the shopping spree~

It's ramadhan! The time where you dont have to eat all day, and at night u get to do lots of exercises. Well, thats from the physical view. And from the religious views, the time to get closer to god, to ask for forgiveness, and to realise the importance of well being, life, and other world-ly things. And the most important thing is to realise, that we are not gonna stay in this world for a very long time. So, we should make the best of it while we still can.

I have come to realise that my birthday is less than a month time. Not thinking about presents, i realize that I am getting somewhat old-er. On 27th septermber 2008 Im going to be 22.
22 is a very big number to me. 22 means that Im almost reaching half of my life cycle. On average, men only live till lets say 60-70. Ok, im exaggerating, 22 is not the middle point. But it does feel like reaching half of my life cycle.

Then comes the question. What have i accomplished within this 22 years. And that took me a long time to answer that, and im still thinking about it as we speak. It turns out that I have not accomplished anything! Nothing to be proud of! NOTHING!

Lets say that I have about 40 yrs to live (in case nothing happens). What can I accomplish within that period of time? I know already that I am incapable of accomplishing nothing in those 22 years. Double the time, what can I do? Double NOTHING? sheesh.

Well, It looks that I have to start figuring things to do after this. Since its ramadhan and I dont have to think about food. It'll probably be a good time to accomplish this.

Happy Ramadhan to every muslims. Hope this ramadhan wont be our last. InsyaAllah.

Time to go.

Its finally here. The time to go. It is the time where I'm gonna venture to a new place. A place that I've never even set my foot yet. Tanjung Bin, Pontian.

Haih. I'm actually quite sad. 'depressing' is another to describe my feelings. To leave everything behind, my beloved family, friends and most importantly my internet. How am i going to survive those 3 things that i cheerish and love so much.

*sighing*

Maybe, who know something good will come out of this. I've never really been out of my 'comfort zone' as been told by nik. This is the time see how am i really built. Am i just built out of bullshit and craps. Am i the type of person who only talks bullshit and does nothing about it. OR I am actually for real. The outcome should be interesting.

Im supposed to hear this song in my head ;

all my back are pack im ready to go,
the taxis waiting outside the door

But unfortunately, Im not hearing any. Maybe because all my backs are not yet packed. And there's not taxi waiting for me.

But instead, im hearing this song in my head;

i wonder how, i wonder why

maybe because i wonder too much whats going to happen to me there. Well, maybe im exagerating too much. I will survive(somehow).

ok peeps. Its time to sleep. I have a long journey tomorow. Journey of soul and mind. Better get my rest. Until the next update, ill be dead. ha ha.